To understand a place, you must experience it through the eyes of those who live there. Connecting with locals while traveling allows us to gain a deeper knowledge of a place.
No matter if you’re on a short city-break or a two-week trip there’s no better way of getting to know a place than talking to the locals. There is nothing like hanging out with a local that can help you understand the local culture, take you to eat at places where only the locals eat, and walk you down empty streets in an otherwise overwhelmingly crowded city. Locals know the ins and outs, the dos and don’ts, the where-to-gos – and the where-not-to-gos. The local people are the best tour guides you can find.
When you travel abroad, you have choices -- you can follow your itinerary and stay with your travel companions or you can branch out and meet the locals. We all know that it’s more comfortable to stay with what you know, but to enhance your travel experience you should get out of your comfort zone and engage with the locals. Engaging with the locals will give you a more authentic travel experience and the rewards are immense.
Top 5 Reasons to Meet Locals While Traveling
1. Meeting the Locals Takes you Out of Your Comfort Zone
Travel is all about getting out of your comfort zone. Trying new foods, experiencing new places, unexpected delays, and language barriers are all part of the travel experience. Striking up a conversation with a stranger and meeting new people while traveling is another way to break out of your comfort zone. This is something you will feel more comfortable with the more often you try.
2. Cultural Immersion
If you really want to get immersed in the culture and language of the destination, there is no better way than to meet locals while traveling. You will learn more from talking to the local people than you ever will from a guidebook or even the internet. The best way to learn is by asking great questions. But remember, your destination is not just “your destination.” It is someone’s home. So always be respectful, stay curious, and be an engaged listener wherever you go.
3. Authentic Experience
Do you want to know the best place to eat pizza in Rome, where to get the best tacos in Cancun, what is the best winery to visit in Cape Town, or how to get the best picture of the Eiffel Tower in Paris? Talk with a local! The locals can point you to the best food, sights, and experiences that the tourists don’t know about.
4. New Opportunities
If you want to see the world in a way you never have, you will have to do something you’ve never done.
Making friends while traveling abroad is a great way to open doors to lots of other opportunities. This is especially important if you are seeking a more immersive and cultural experience. By stepping out of your comfort zone and meeting new people, you may find yourself with opportunities you wouldn’t have if you kept to yourself. You may be invited to someone’s home, a family party, a wedding, or a night out to the local spots around town. If you want to see the world in a way you never have, you will have to do something you’ve never done.
5. Make Lifelong Friends
While traveling you may have the opportunity to form meaningful relationships that could result in lifelong friendships. You might even find yourself inviting your new friends to visit you at home, or with an invitation to return to their home. Overcome your fear and strike up a conversation — it will be worth it!
How to Meet People While Traveling
1. Start a Conversation
Museums and art galleries are a great place to start up conversations with locals perusing art, who might know a thing or two about the featured paintings and other works. Going to a popular park to have lunch is a great neutral area to meet other locals. Why not strike up conversations in coffee shops, in restaurants, parks, and or on public transportation? Look on community websites to see if any interesting events are going on around the area.
2. Work or Volunteer
If you plan to go abroad for a longer period, why not volunteer, or pick up a part-time job. Working with other people is one of the best ways to connect with the locals.
3. Reconsider Your Lodging
If your goal while traveling is to meet the local people you may want to reconsider your lodging. Booking a hotel is easy, but you may want to consider foregoing a traditional hotel and stay in an Airbnb or villa. Being a guest in someone’s home is a great way to spark conversations about the culture and an easy way to form friendships. Don’t be shy, ask your host and their family out to dinner or drinks one night. Other great options for local lodging include Homestays, B&B’s run by families and Couchsurfing.
4. Friend of a Friend
You can go on Facebook, Instagram, or other network channels, and let people know that you are traveling abroad and if they have any friends or family that you could meet while there. Make sure you use discretion when sharing specifics about your trip online.
5. Connect Over Food
Music is said to be a universal language. But food also brings people together. Everyone loves food and everyone must eat.
Go to markets, local restaurants run by families, ask questions, and see where your conversation goes. Be curious! Ask about their family recipes. Ask for a lesson in making pasta, dumplings, tacos, or whatever local delicacy you become obsessed with.
If you are willing to come out of your comfort zone and are feeling adventurous, dine with the locals. Did you meet someone during the day? Ask them about their favorite restaurant and if you could meet up later for lunch or dinner. Everyone needs to eat, so why not do it together?
6. Use an App
There are many great apps such as MeetUp and Showaround to help connect you with people who share your interests. You can also join Facebook travel groups. There are thousands of members, who share the same interest. You can help each other and connect also in real-life. It is a great opportunity to find a perfect companion to travel with or meet locals wherever you are.
The Last Word
Connecting with locals while traveling isn’t as difficult as you might think. It requires a little research, an open mind and, most importantly, some confidence!
When you travel abroad do not be afraid to meet new people. By meeting and connecting with both locals and other travelers you will have a more authentic and immersive travel experience.
Do you have any memories you would like to share about meeting with the locals while traveling? If so, let me know in the comments.
Stay inspired,
Cindy